Do the desperate must-do tasks* - chuck on the laundry or whatever is time dependent, do the baby's dishes, feed yourself - then skip the emails, the book, as well as anything you can do while Bub is up (i.e. other housework).
Then start your craft. Start as soon as you can. It doesn't matter if it's thinking, planning, organising, doodling, actually putting needle to fibre - start.
And here's the antithesis of that advice: Don't put off starting because the baby 'might wake soon'.
This hesitation is the Achilles Heel of all Bubbamummas. It's a furphy, a ruse, a con.
Of course she might wake soon, but she might not... What if you knew you had a solid 40mins guaranteed? You'd start, yes? Well, pretend you do and begin. Even if she does wake in 5 mins, which she sometimes will, you'll have made a dint in something. And that's something!
That's the best advice I have about productivity with babies and toddlers. I'm not sure at what point craft time can realistically overlap with their waking time. I've done some simple knitting while she's pottered around me. I've been able to sew while Bub lunches by me in her high chair, but I wouldn't try it when she's running about.
The only other thing that makes a difference to my productivity (besides sleep) is space. I'm fortunate that Bub shows no interest in my craft stuff that's around the living areas. It's not laid out, pins exposed with scissors in reach. However my machine is on the table, out of reach but handy to me, and there are boxes of fabric about and snaplock bags of quilting squares. But! I would love to have a room I could close behind me where the work actually is laid out, pinned and ready to go. If you have such a room please stop reading this and go use that glorious box you lucky thing.
The only other thing that makes a difference to my productivity (besides sleep) is space. I'm fortunate that Bub shows no interest in my craft stuff that's around the living areas. It's not laid out, pins exposed with scissors in reach. However my machine is on the table, out of reach but handy to me, and there are boxes of fabric about and snaplock bags of quilting squares. But! I would love to have a room I could close behind me where the work actually is laid out, pinned and ready to go. If you have such a room please stop reading this and go use that glorious box you lucky thing.
Here are some other posts I've enjoyed along the way of this blog... Maybe they have the magic recipe for you.
Check out guest blogger Kathy Stowell, and her post about Sewing with Kids, hosted by Sew Mama Sew. She follows 6 steps to fit it all in, including using any 5mins you can get every day!
See if Abby Glassenburg's One Touch Rule, over at While She Naps, is for you.
Or maybe Sara of Sew Sweetness has your style. I call it 'going hammer & tongs': "Even though I take care of my family during the day and work a part-time job on the weekend, I devote every spare minute and stay up until midnight every night, so that I can work on my bag designs and blog. I have found my calling, and I'll do whatever it takes to make it happen."
*I write this under the premise that you're reasonably rested. Sleep trumps everything, especially in the early days of mumming. If you have to choose between sleep and food, have a bowl of cereal and go to bed. For the love of all things cheesy, sleep if you need it. Can you name the day in under a second? No? Go to bed. Trust me: I didn't and it was often a mistake.
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